The phrase “that’s so gay” may seem like harmless slang, but its impact tells a different story—reinforcing stereotypes and contributing to unsafe environments for LGBTQ+ people. In this video, we explain where the phrase comes from, how its meaning evolved, and why it still matters today.
From casual language to cultural impact, understanding how words shape perception can help create more inclusive spaces and challenge everyday microaggressions that often go unnoticed.
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Listen to the full podcast episode: https://www.ajadedgay.com/69-thats-so-gay-you-really-shouldnt-say-that/
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Sources:
The History of the Word "Gay": https://www.gayly.com/history-word-%E2%80%9Cgay%E2%80%9D
That's So Gay (Urban Dictionary): https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=That%27s%20so%20gay
Think Before You Speak Campaign: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Think_Before_You_Speak_(campaign)
Why is it OK to Say "That's So Gay?": https://www.npr.org/transcripts/105909348
"That's So Gay" is Just So Wrong: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/understanding-the-erotic-code/201803/thats-so-gay-is-just-so-wrong
The 2021 National School Climate Survey (Executive Summary): https://www.glsen.org/sites/default/files/2022-10/NSCS-2021-Executive_Summary-EN.pdf
The 2021 National School Climate Survey (Full Report): https://www.glsen.org/sites/default/files/2022-10/NSCS-2021-Full-Report.pdf
HRC Foundation’s Welcoming Schools: https://welcomingschools.org/
What Do You Say to “That’s So Gay” and Other Anti-LGBTQ Comments?: https://www.hrc.org/news/what-do-you-say-to-thats-so-gay-and-other-anti-lgbtq-comments
What Do You Say to ‘That’s So Gay’ & Other Anti-LGBTQ+ Comments? (Resources): https://www.hrc.org/news/what-do-you-say-to-thats-so-gay-and-other-anti-lgbtq-comments
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