Let’s Talk About the F Word The word "faggot" is undeniably one of the most charged and offensive slurs in the LGBTQ+ lexicon. For many, it’s a word laden with trauma, used historically to demean, belittle, and ostracize. However, over the years, a…
Hold Onto Hope As Donald Trump begins another term as president of the United States, concerns about the future of LGBTQ+ rights have surged across the community. Reflecting on the Trump administration's track record from 2017 to 2021 and the impli…
Going Deeper Not Just in the Bedroom, But in Our Emotional Connections Gay dating presents unique challenges, particularly in a culture heavily reliant on dating apps. When using these apps, gay men often find themselves surrounded by shirtless pho…
By All Means, Keep Complaining About Increasing Gas Prices While LGBTQ+ Ukrainians Fight for Their Lives Over three years into Russia’s full-scale invasion of Ukraine, much of the world's attention has shifted away from the human toll of the war. I…
Dear Florida: We're Here. We're Queer. Get Used to It. Throughout 2022, Florida's "Don't Say Gay" bill, officially titled the Florida Parental Rights in Education Act, dominated headlines and ignited nationwide debates. The controversial law has ne…
Queerness and Revolution Go Hand in Hand on the Dancefloor Disco, often remembered for its iconic bell bottoms, roller skates, and glittery nightlife, has a much deeper cultural and historical significance, especially within the queer community. Wh…
Snapbacks, Tattoos, and Bad Attitudes Aren’t Always the Best Qualities In today’s digital age, where dating apps often present us with a sea of shirtless torsos and minimal information, it’s easy to lose sight of what truly matters in finding a par…
Be Nice, But Not Too Nice As we begin a new year, many of us embrace the idea of a fresh start. For some, this includes wading back into the dating pool, eager for love and connection. However, without addressing unresolved issues from the past, we…
And That, My Friend, is What They Call Closure As each year draws to a close, it's natural to feel a whirlwind of emotions. We often look back on the highs and lows, reflecting on how much has changed. For some, the end of the year brings a sense o…
A Whole New Meaning to Leave the Gun, Take the Cannoli When most people hear the word "Mafia," they likely envision the world of The Godfather or The Sopranos, iconic images of tough, masculine, and often violent men running organized crime empires…
Understand Your Privilege and Do Your Research The term ally gets thrown around often, especially during Pride Month. For many straight people, adding an ally sticker to their Facebook profile or waving a rainbow flag in June feels like enough. But…
Make the Yuletide Gay with These Movies Holiday films have long been a staple of the season, offering warmth, joy, and plenty of sentimentality. However, for LGBTQ+ audiences, traditional holiday movies often lack the representation needed to refle…
Ho Ho How the Hell Are We Gonna Get Through This? As the holiday season swings into full gear, it's impossible to ignore the festive ads, decorations, and music that have been with us since before Halloween. There is a palpable sense of joy in the …
Cue Needy by Ariana Grande In recent years, the concept of attachment styles has gained increasing attention, particularly in conversations about relationships and emotional health. For many, including those in the LGBTQ+ community, understanding a…
If Being Anxious Was a Form of Exercise, I’d Be Jacked Body image pressure is a prevalent source of anxiety for many gay men. The "perfect" body—often imagined as tall, muscular, and traditionally masculine—has become the standard many strive towar…
Let’s Assess Sexual Behavior Rather Than Sexual Orientation In May 2023, the United States lifted its longstanding restrictions on blood donations from men who have sex with men, marking a significant victory for the LGBTQ+ community. This policy c…
As Nina Sayers Says in Black Swan, “I Just Want to be Perfect.” Perfectionism is a complex personality trait that manifests across various aspects of our lives, including career success, body image, and personal achievements. At its core, Merriam-W…
I'm Just Gonna Say It: Brian Kinney Was Insufferable When I first watched Queer as Folk (at 21 years old, shortly after coming out of the closet), it was a stark contrast to the shy, inexperienced person I was at the time. The show’s unapologetical…
The Only Thing Scarier Than Straight People is Queer Horror Stereotypes In recent years, there has been a noticeable rise in LGBTQ+ representation in film, including the horror genre. However, the connection between horror and queerness is not a ne…
Why Are Straight Coworkers' Life Events Celebrated, While LGBTQ+ Identities are Seen as “Flaunting” In the journey of being our authentic selves, the workplace stands out as one of the most challenging environments for LGBTQ+ individuals. While man…
Pride Messaging is Nice, But Those Social Media Rainbows Don't Actually Protect the LGBTQ+ Community As Pride Month rolls around each year, we are met with a familiar sight: a sea of rainbow-colored merchandise, corporate Pride messages, and compan…
My Coming Out Was Nothing Like the Joyful Celebration Diana Ross Sang About Gay men have various coming out experiences, ranging from joyous celebrations filled with love and acceptance to painful rejections marked by sorrow and disappointment. Eac…
Orange is the New Threat Over the past few years, it has become increasingly evident how much politics shapes the lives of the LGBTQ+ community. While this has always been true—dating back to landmark moments like the Stonewall Riots and the AIDS e…
Just Because I Don’t Fit Into the Gay Party Scene Doesn't Mean I Have to Settle for Mediocre Heteros Finding a sense of community within the LGBTQ+ world is essential, especially for those of us who have experienced gay loneliness. Yet, some gay me…
