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Dec. 3, 2024

Navigating Love with Attachment Styles: Building Healthier Relationships for Gay Men

Cue Needy by Ariana Grande In recent years, the concept of attachment styles has gained increasing attention, particularly in conversations about relationships and emotional health. For many, including those in the LGBTQ+ community, understanding a…

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Nov. 26, 2024

The Pressure to Achieve Perfection: Body Obsession in the Gay Community and Its Impact on Self-Worth

If Being Anxious Was a Form of Exercise, I’d Be Jacked Body image pressure is a prevalent source of anxiety for many gay men. The "perfect" body—often imagined as tall, muscular, and traditionally masculine—has become the standard…

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Nov. 19, 2024

The Evolution of Blood Donation Restrictions for Men Who Have Sex with Men

Let’s Assess Sexual Behavior Rather Than Sexual Orientation In May 2023, the United States lifted its longstanding restrictions on blood donations from men who have sex with men, marking a significant victory for the LGBTQ+ community. This po…

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Nov. 12, 2024

Perfectly Imperfect: Understanding Perfectionism and Its Impact on Gay Men

As Nina Sayers Says in Black Swan, “I Just Want to be Perfect.” Perfectionism is a complex personality trait that manifests across various aspects of our lives, including career success, body image, and personal achievements. At its cor…

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Nov. 5, 2024

Queer as Folk: A Groundbreaking Journey of LGBTQ+ Representation

I'm Just Gonna Say It: Brian Kinney Was Insufferable When I first watched Queer as Folk (at 21 years old, shortly after coming out of the closet), it was a stark contrast to the shy, inexperienced person I was at the time. The show’s unapolog…

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Oct. 29, 2024

The Hidden Queerness of Horror: Unmasking the Genre’s LGBTQ+ Roots

The Only Thing Scarier Than Straight People is Queer Horror Stereotypes In recent years, there has been a noticeable rise in LGBTQ+ representation in film, including the horror genre. However, the connection between horror and queerness is not a ne…

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Oct. 22, 2024

Navigating the Workplace as an LGBTQ+ Professional: The Importance of Being Out and Authentic

Why Are Straight Coworkers' Life Events Celebrated, While LGBTQ+ Identities are Seen as “Flaunting” In the journey of being our authentic selves, the workplace stands out as one of the most challenging environments for LGBTQ+ individual…

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Oct. 15, 2024

Beyond the Rainbow: The Dark Side of Corporate Pride and Rainbow Capitalism

Pride Messaging is Nice, But Those Social Media Rainbows Don't Actually Protect the LGBTQ+ Community As Pride Month rolls around each year, we are met with a familiar sight: a sea of rainbow-colored merchandise, corporate Pride messages, and compan…

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Oct. 8, 2024

The Journey of Coming Out: Understanding Its History and Significance

My Coming Out Was Nothing Like the Joyful Celebration Diana Ross Sang About Gay men have various coming out experiences, ranging from joyous celebrations filled with love and acceptance to painful rejections marked by sorrow and disappointment. Eac…

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Oct. 1, 2024

The Impact of the Trump Administration on the LGBTQ+ Community: A Journey Through Setbacks and Advocacy

Orange is the New Threat Over the past few years, it has become increasingly evident how much politics shapes the lives of the LGBTQ+ community. While this has always been true—dating back to landmark moments like the Stonewall Riots and the …

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