Gaydar Malfunction: When Your Stereotypes Need a Tune-Up The concept of "gaydar" – the perceived ability to sense someone’s sexual orientation – is familiar to many and has become a fixture in LGBTQ+ culture. While widely recogniz…
The Sweet Side of Valentine’s Day? Discounted Candy on February 15 For many single people, Valentine’s Day looms as the most dreaded day of the year, and for good reason. In a society that’s largely heteronormative, LGBTQ+ people …
Because Putting a Condom on a Banana Doesn’t Cut It Growing up gay comes with its own set of unique experiences, setting us apart from our straight peers in ways that extend far beyond the obvious. For many of us, these differences impact our…
Nothing Says “True Love” Like Manipulation Some may already know the term love bombing, while for others, it might be new. And here’s a spoiler: love bombing isn’t as romantic as it sounds. In fact, you may have experienced …
It’s Giving Anxious Anxiety is a universal experience that affects everyone, regardless of sexual orientation. It's natural to feel anxious in certain situations—whether you're preparing for a big presentation at work or anticipating a …
It’s Better the Devil You Know Kylie’s Legacy Pop music has long held a special place in the hearts of gay men, serving as a powerful outlet for self-expression and emotional connection. The genre’s vibrant beats and catchy melodi…
It's a Beautiful Day in the Gayborhood If You Can Afford Rent It’s no secret that many gay men gravitate toward large cities in the U.S., with hubs like Los Angeles, New York, Chicago, and Washington, D.C., standing out as significant LGBTQ+ …
Let’s Talk About the F Word The word "faggot" is undeniably one of the most charged and offensive slurs in the LGBTQ+ lexicon. For many, it’s a word laden with trauma, used historically to demean, belittle, and ostracize. However, over …
Hold Onto Hope As Donald Trump begins another term as president of the United States, concerns about the future of LGBTQ+ rights have surged across the community. Reflecting on the Trump administration's track record from 2017 to 2021 and the impli…
Going Deeper Not Just in the Bedroom, But in Our Emotional Connections Gay dating presents unique challenges, particularly in a culture heavily reliant on dating apps. When using these apps, gay men often find themselves surrounded by shirtless pho…
By All Means, Keep Complaining About Increasing Gas Prices While LGBTQ+ Ukrainians Fight for Their Lives Over three years into Russia’s full-scale invasion of Ukraine, much of the world's attention has shifted away from the human toll of the …
Dear Florida: We're Here. We're Queer. Get Used to It. Throughout 2022, Florida's "Don't Say Gay" bill, officially titled the Florida Parental Rights in Education Act, dominated headlines and ignited nationwide debates. The controversial law has ne…
Queerness and Revolution Go Hand in Hand on the Dancefloor Disco, often remembered for its iconic bell bottoms, roller skates, and glittery nightlife, has a much deeper cultural and historical significance, especially within the queer community. Wh…
Snapbacks, Tattoos, and Bad Attitudes Aren’t Always the Best Qualities In today’s digital age, where dating apps often present us with a sea of shirtless torsos and minimal information, it’s easy to lose sight of what truly matter…
Be Nice, But Not Too Nice As we begin a new year, many of us embrace the idea of a fresh start. For some, this includes wading back into the dating pool, eager for love and connection. However, without addressing unresolved issues from the past, we…
And That, My Friend, is What They Call Closure As each year draws to a close, it's natural to feel a whirlwind of emotions. We often look back on the highs and lows, reflecting on how much has changed. For some, the end of the year brings a sense o…
A Whole New Meaning to Leave the Gun, Take the Cannoli When most people hear the word "Mafia," they likely envision the world of The Godfather or The Sopranos, iconic images of tough, masculine, and often violent men running organized crime empires…
Understand Your Privilege and Do Your Research The term ally gets thrown around often, especially during Pride Month. For many straight people, adding an ally sticker to their Facebook profile or waving a rainbow flag in June feels like enough. But…
Make the Yuletide Gay with These Movies Holiday films have long been a staple of the season, offering warmth, joy, and plenty of sentimentality. However, for LGBTQ+ audiences, traditional holiday movies often lack the representation needed to refle…
Ho Ho How the Hell Are We Gonna Get Through This? As the holiday season swings into full gear, it's impossible to ignore the festive ads, decorations, and music that have been with us since before Halloween. There is a palpable sense of joy in the …
Cue Needy by Ariana Grande In recent years, the concept of attachment styles has gained increasing attention, particularly in conversations about relationships and emotional health. For many, including those in the LGBTQ+ community, understanding a…
If Being Anxious Was a Form of Exercise, I’d Be Jacked Body image pressure is a prevalent source of anxiety for many gay men. The "perfect" body—often imagined as tall, muscular, and traditionally masculine—has become the standard…
Let’s Assess Sexual Behavior Rather Than Sexual Orientation In May 2023, the United States lifted its longstanding restrictions on blood donations from men who have sex with men, marking a significant victory for the LGBTQ+ community. This po…
As Nina Sayers Says in Black Swan, “I Just Want to be Perfect.” Perfectionism is a complex personality trait that manifests across various aspects of our lives, including career success, body image, and personal achievements. At its cor…
