Daddy issues is a colloquial term often used to stigmatize psychological or emotional challenges that may arise in an individual's life due to a perceived absence, neglect, or strained relationship with their father. Some gay men may experience their fathers subtly distancing themselves as a form of rejection of their sexuality, which has the potential to negatively influence the way they learn to navigate and sustain lasting relationships between men.
In this episode, we’re discussing the nuances of daddy issues, exploring their definition and manifestations, the distinct effects on gay men, featuring insightful perspectives from The Velvet Rage by Dr. Alan Downes, and exploring pathways to healing and navigating the complex terrain of daddy issues in the LGBTQ+ community.
Full Episode:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/88-reparent-your-daddy-issues/id1619338054?i=1000644333193
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Additional Resources:
Daddy Issues Definition (Dictionary.com)
https://www.dictionary.com/e/slang/daddy-issues/
‘Daddy Issues’ and Their Impact on Adult Relationships
https://psychcentral.com/health/what-are-daddy-issues-exactly
What Are “Daddy Issues”?
https://www.psycom.net/relationships-daddy-issues
“Do I Have Daddy Issues?” Ask a Therapist
https://www.talkspace.com/blog/daddy-issues/
Read The Velvet Rage by Dr. Alan Downs
https://www.amazon.com/Velvet-Rage-Overcoming-Growing-Straight/dp/0738215678/ref=monarch_sidesheet
Why is it so Difficult for Some Gay Men to Find a Partner?
https://drrichardtravis.com/2015/08/16/why-is-it-so-difficult-for-some-gay-men-to-find-a-partner/
What Are 'Daddy Issues'?
https://www.verywellmind.com/what-are-daddy-issues-5190911
Yes, ‘Daddy Issues’ Are a Real Thing — Here’s How to Deal
https://www.healthline.com/health/what-are-daddy-issues
Daddy Issues: The Age-Old Stigma Around Intergenerational Relationships
https://www.out.com/lifestyle/2016/6/20/daddy-issues-age-old-stigma-around-intergenerational-relationships
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