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171. Manifest Your Best Year Yet (with Ryan Lu)
Jan. 26, 2026

171. Manifest Your Best Year Yet (with Ryan Lu)

In previous episodes, we explored how to stay focused on attracting the right kinds of guys into our lives and the power of manifestation. As we move into the new year, we have the opportunity to realign our intentions and open ourselves to the experiences, relationships, and growth we truly desire…
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The Secret to Deeper Connection in Gay Relationships
Jan. 26, 2026

The Secret to Deeper Connection in Gay Relationships

Emotional intimacy is the foundation of healthy, fulfilling relationships, but for many gay men, it can feel complicated. In this video, we’re unpacking what emotional intimacy really looks like, why it matters, and practical ways gay men can build closeness and trust with their partners. From sha…
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#Shorts: Don’t let limiting beliefs hold you back #manifest #gayculture #manifestation #manifesting
Jan. 26, 2026

#Shorts: Don’t let limiting beliefs hold you back #manifest #gayculture #manifestation #manifesting

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#Shorts: Let’s manifest our best year yet! #manifestation #gayculture #manifest #manifesting
Jan. 25, 2026

#Shorts: Let’s manifest our best year yet! #manifestation #gayculture #manifest #manifesting

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The Queer Origins of the Disco Movement
Jan. 23, 2026

The Queer Origins of the Disco Movement

Disco is often remembered for glitter, mirror balls, and packed dance floors—but it was born in queer, Black, and Latinx underground spaces. In this video, we explore the queer history of disco and how it emerged as a vital form of escape, expression, and resistance during a time of social upheaval…
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The Surprising History of Mafia-Run Gay Bars
Jan. 21, 2026

The Surprising History of Mafia-Run Gay Bars

Gay bars have long served as vital safe spaces for LGBTQ+ people, especially during times when society was openly hostile. In this video, we’re diving into a hidden chapter of queer history, when the Mafia owned and operated many gay bars in the United States during the 1960s and 1970s. Looking at…
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How to Be a Better LGBTQ+ Ally
Jan. 19, 2026

How to Be a Better LGBTQ+ Ally

Allyship can seem simple, but meaningful support for the LGBTQ+ community requires intention, humility, and action. In this video, we explore what it truly means to be an ally and why real support goes beyond symbols or statements. By understanding allyship as an ongoing responsibility rather than…
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Understanding Attachment Styles for Gay Men’s Dating Success
Jan. 16, 2026

Understanding Attachment Styles for Gay Men’s Dating Success

Many gay men struggle with intimacy, trust, and emotional safety in dating, often stemming from early experiences of rejection, secrecy, or emotional neglect that shape adult attachment patterns. In this video, we explore attachment theory in the context of gay dating and how secure, anxious, avoid…
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How the Blood Donation Policy for Gay Men Has Evolved
Jan. 14, 2026

How the Blood Donation Policy for Gay Men Has Evolved

For decades, gay and bisexual men were banned from donating blood because of fear and stigma rooted in the early AIDS crisis. In this video, we’re diving into the history of the blood donation ban, how it evolved over time, and what today’s behavior-based screening rules actually mean for LGBTQ+ do…
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Why Perfectionism Is So Common Among Gay Men
Jan. 12, 2026

Why Perfectionism Is So Common Among Gay Men

For many gay men, perfectionism is a survival strategy shaped by shame, comparison, and the fear of being judged. In this video, we’re exploring how perfectionism shows up in gay men’s lives, from body image and achievement to relationships and self-worth. The good news is that perfectionism isn’t…
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How Queer as Folk Redefined LGBTQ+ Representation on TV
Jan. 9, 2026

How Queer as Folk Redefined LGBTQ+ Representation on TV

From the UK version in 1999 to the iconic U.S. adaptation on Showtime, Queer as Folk was a groundbreaking moment in pop culture that centered queer stories and characters in a way mainstream television never had before. In this video, we’re unpacking the bold storylines of Queer as Folk, from sex a…
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Are Mustaches Gay? The Queer History Behind the Stache
Jan. 7, 2026

Are Mustaches Gay? The Queer History Behind the Stache

The mustache is more than facial hair: it’s a symbol shaped by history, politics, sexuality, and queer identity. In this video, we’re diving into the surprising evolution of the mustache, from ancient civilizations and medieval warriors to its bold role in gay culture, counterculture, and modern ma…
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Internalized Homophobia Explained: Why It Hurts More Than We Think
Jan. 5, 2026

Internalized Homophobia Explained: Why It Hurts More Than We Think

Internalized homophobia is one of the most quietly damaging forces shaping LGBTQ+ lives, and many people don’t realize how deeply it affects their self-worth, relationships, and sense of belonging. In this video, we break down what internalized homophobia actually is, how negative societal messages…
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Being Closeted at Work: The Hidden Struggles of LGBTQ+ Professionals
Jan. 2, 2026

Being Closeted at Work: The Hidden Struggles of LGBTQ+ Professionals

Many LGBTQ+ employees face the daily challenge of hiding their identity at work since coming out can feel risky—even in environments that seem safe. In this video, we explore why being closeted at work is so common, the mental and emotional toll it takes, and how small acts of visibility can empowe…
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Rainbow Capitalism Explained: Corporate Greed, Pinkwashing, and Performative Allyship
Dec. 29, 2025

Rainbow Capitalism Explained: Corporate Greed, Pinkwashing, and Performative Allyship

Many LGBTQ+ people see corporations celebrate Pride with rainbow logos and campaigns, yet those same companies often fail to support the community in meaningful ways. In this video, we explore what rainbow capitalism is, how corporate greed and pinkwashing show up during Pride, and why performative…
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Why Finding Community Matters for Gay Men
Dec. 26, 2025

Why Finding Community Matters for Gay Men

Loneliness for gay men often comes from feeling out of sync with the world around us. In this video, we explore how community can transform that experience, why it’s essential for queer wellbeing, and where to find connections that actually feel authentic. Whether you live in a big city or a small…
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The Evolution of Queer Media Representation
Dec. 22, 2025

The Evolution of Queer Media Representation

Queer media representation started over a century ago with coded characters, subtle moments, and groundbreaking scenes that pushed against cultural expectations. In this video, we’re exploring how LGBTQ+ visibility evolved from silent-film queer coding to the 90s “gay renaissance,” and the diverse …
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The Shocking Legal Defense Still Used Against LGBTQ+ People in 2025
Dec. 19, 2025

The Shocking Legal Defense Still Used Against LGBTQ+ People in 2025

Many people don’t realize the gay panic defense is still legal in most of the U.S. — and that it can reduce charges or excuse violence against LGBTQ+ people, including murder. In this video, we break down what the panic defense is, where it came from, how it’s used in court, and why it continues to…
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Celebrating LGBTQ+ Stories in Holiday Films
Dec. 17, 2025

Celebrating LGBTQ+ Stories in Holiday Films

LGBTQ+ holiday movies are finally giving queer people the space we’ve long deserved in Christmas storytelling. In this video, we break down why queer-inclusive holiday films matter, how they reflect our lives, and why representation during the holidays can feel especially meaningful. From early gl…
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The Queer Holiday Survival Guide
Dec. 15, 2025

The Queer Holiday Survival Guide

The holidays can be magical for some—but for many LGBTQ+ people, they come with stress, complicated family dynamics, and feelings of isolation. In this video, we break down practical ways to survive and even thrive during the holiday season as a queer person. From setting boundaries and protecting…
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Why Vulnerability Feels Scary for Gay Men
Dec. 12, 2025

Why Vulnerability Feels Scary for Gay Men

Many gay men struggle with vulnerability in relationships, often without realizing how much past experiences, stigma, and minority stress influence their ability to open up. In this video, we explore what interpersonal vulnerability really is, why it can feel scary, and how it shows up in romantic …
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Why Gay Men Love Pop Queens and Their Music
Dec. 10, 2025

Why Gay Men Love Pop Queens and Their Music

Pop music isn’t just entertainment for gay men—it’s a lifeline. In this video, we explore why gay men are drawn to pop queens, how these icons provide emotional refuge, and the ways music mirrors the struggles and triumphs of growing up queer. From escapism to empowerment, and vulnerability to the…
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Why COVID Hit the LGBTQ+ Community Harder
Dec. 8, 2025

Why COVID Hit the LGBTQ+ Community Harder

The COVID-19 pandemic affected everyone, but the LGBTQ+ community faced unique challenges—financial, social, and healthcare-related—that made its impact even more profound. In this video, we explore how historical events like the AIDS crisis shaped the way our community experiences pandemics, why C…
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Overcoming Codependency in LGBTQ+ Relationships
Dec. 8, 2025

Overcoming Codependency in LGBTQ+ Relationships

Many LGBTQ+ people struggle with codependency in relationships, often without realizing it. In this video, we explore what codependency really is, how it shows up in romantic and platonic dynamics, and practical steps for reclaiming your emotional independence. By understanding how past experience…
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