A Jaded Gay

A Jaded Gay

Living in a world of fuckboys, homophobes, and inequalities can leave a gay feeling, well, jaded, so tune in for your weekly dose of gay empowerment. We're talking pop culture, politics, and dating hardships, all through the lens of overcoming gay trauma and nurturing our emotional wellbeing.

Recent Episodes

Oct. 20, 2025

164. Exploring Queer Identity Through Astrology (with Danny Santos)

Previously, we discussed how some queer men find solace and empowerment in spiritual practices like astrology, which offers a means of self-discovery and affirmation. Rooted in introspection and symbolism, queer astrology can...
Oct. 6, 2025

163. Queer Belonging in the Digital Age (with Nick Paul)

Social media has created vibrant online communities where LGBTQ+ people can connect, share experiences, and affirm their identities. Platforms like TikTok offer support, visibility, and a sense of belonging that many may not ...
Sept. 22, 2025

162. Queer Beauty: Unfiltered (with Vincent Branchesi & Karim Fadel)

Queer beauty celebrates self-expression, authenticity, and fluidity, challenging traditional beauty standards and embracing identities across the spectrum. By centering queer voices, beauty becomes a powerful tool for empower...
Sept. 8, 2025

161. Queer Bodies: Navigating Illness, Identity, and Intimacy (with Mickie Kennedy)

Societal pressure on men to appear tough and self-reliant can lead to the avoidance of medical care since vulnerability is wrongly equated with weakness. For gay men, this is further complicated by the fear of discrimination ...
Aug. 25, 2025

160. Why Queer Bookstores Matter: Preserving LGBTQ+ Culture and Community (with Greg Newton & Donnie Jochum)

Queer bookstores have long been more than just places to buy books, serving as cultural hubs, safe havens, and essential spaces for connection, representation, and affirmation within the LGBTQ+ community. As we navigate an in...
Aug. 18, 2025

159. Reclaim Your Queer Identity Through Self-Compassion (with Sam Fogarty)

Many gay men grow up internalizing social norms that dictate how they should act, love, or present themselves—distorting their sense of self and making it harder to connect authentically with others. But we can begin to heal ...

Recent Blog Posts

Oct. 30, 2025

Queer Horror’s Evolution: How LGBTQ+ Creators and Fans Are Reshaping …

The Rise of Queer Horror and Its Thriving Community Horror has long been a genre that provides a voice to the marginalized—those who defy societal norms and challenge conventional expectations. For the LGBTQ+ community, horror functions as bo…

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Oct. 28, 2025

Bury Your Gays: The Trope's Harmful Impact on LGBTQ+ Characters and t…

The Gays Are Slaying and Being Slayed Storytelling has long mirrored society’s fears, prejudices, and desires, often relegating queer characters to tragic fates. This phenomenon, known as the "Bury Your Gays" trope, has plagued LGBTQ+ represe…

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Oct. 23, 2025

Fear Reimagined: How Queer Creators Are Reshaping the Horror Genre in…

Queer Horror in the Age of New Media Horror has long served as a space for marginalized voices to explore themes of otherness, resilience, and transformation. In recent years, queer creators have used the rise of digital platforms, such as YouTube …

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About the Host

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Rob Loveless

Rob Loveless is the host of A Jaded Gay podcast, focusing on LGBTQ+ empowerment through pop culture, politics, and dating hardships. Blending humor, vulnerability, and open discussions, the podcast delves into a wide range of topics and invites listeners into a supportive and inclusive space where they can find solace, inspiration, and a sense of belonging.

Reviews

One of my favorites!

"This is one of my favorite podcasts! Rob is fun to listen to and I get so much out of each episode. Thank you, Rob for being so fun and informative!"

Rob F W | Sept. 25, 2022

The Pod that started it all #nonjaded

"This Pod and the topics Rob covers was the drop of water that kicked off a journey for me that has had a profound ripple effect. Getting insight to gay micro traumas, people pleasing, perfectionism, …"

SamJo STL | June 22, 2023